Take a Break
February 16th, 2009 |
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Self Care, Time Management | 1 Comment
by Lanell Dike

Happy Monday!
Today is a holiday in the U.S. Are you working? How often do you work on your holidays, your vacations, and your weekends?
Are you always working? Why? What’s so important?
We all know from experience that the to-do list never really ends: one thing is crossed off and another fills the space.
Repeat.
One thing is crossed off and another fills the space. Repeat.
So we live, day by day.
Yet, somehow, even as we replicate this pattern over and over, we believe that we will come to the end of our to-do list and then we’ll rest. Then we will have time for whatever it is we are putting off until we have time for it.
Are we there yet?
We also have the tendency to think that we are the center of the universe. Have you noticed that? How important we think we are to whatever is happening or to whatever we think needs to happen?
We can’t take a break right now because then, whatever we think needs to happen won’t happen, and it needs to happen and we need to make it happen. Suddenly everything relies on our action, on our doing. The world needs us.
So the story in our mind goes.
Our thinking can get a bit delusional at times with the sense of our own importance. Reality checks are necessary.
Take a reality check break today. You already know your list isn’t going anywhere, so Relax. Turn off your computer and go outside into the world. Look around.
See how much is happening without any effort at all on your part.
Pause. Notice something that you have never noticed before. Talk to someone you have never talked to before. Listen to what they have to say.
Watch the sunset and stare up at the night sky. See the billions of stars and galaxies stretching into the unknown. Remember how small you and your thoughts and your to-do lists are in the universe of all that is.
Laugh at the absurdity of your own sense of importance. Repeat.
June 22nd, 2009 at 4:58 am (#)
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